Tips on Dealing with Eager In-Laws, Multiple Celebrations and Keeping the Kids Happy  Hating the holiday season never made much sense to me. Then, I got married. I am sure there are couples for whom the holidays are no big deal. The in-laws all get along and don't mind sharing their kids and grandkids for celebrations. Travel isn't necessary, so no one ever worries about how they're going to get home or how much it'll cost. Two families' traditions blend together seamlessly and everyone shares a good laugh over eggnog. The only couples I know who fit that description have just one family to please, either because of death or distance. For the rest of us, the holidays are a balancing act between cheer and stress. Working out the holiday visitation schedule--and surviving those visits--is key to happy holidays, but how to do it? Above all else, remember: Parents hold the power. Who enjoys the holiday most? Children. Who receives the most gifts? Children. Whose reaction is everyone watching 'round the Christmas tree? Children. Holidays really are for the kids, and that gives parents--the keepers of the kids--the right to decide how to celebrate. Your job is to make the holiday season special and important to them. For many families, that means limiting holiday travel. It's hard for a grandparent to argue when you explain you want to keep some of the magic alive by allowing kids to wake up in their own beds Christmas Day. I like this guide from Simple Mom, advising parents to get their holiday calendars in order by deciding as a family what events are most important to attend. The goal isn't to dictate traditions but to make the ones you follow meaningful. With power comes great responsibility. Isn't that the cliche? Well, it holds true during the holiday season, too. You might put your foot down and ban holiday travel. The husband and I did early on in our marriage after one disastrous Thanksgiving where we spent more time in the car than around the table and still made both our mothers sad. I decided I enjoyed the holidays too much to ruin them with guilt. No more, we told our families. We might visit home near the holidays but not on them. Our mothers wailed, they gnashed their teeth--and then they bought plane tickets. We exchanged holiday gridlock for two weeks of visits from our parents. To be honest, I'd almost prefer the gridlock to the lengthy visits. But these, too, are survivable. First of all, if you can, get them out of your house. Long visits are easier if your home is still your own. If your mother-in-law is rearranging your cabinets and your father-in-law is hogging the bathroom (hypothetically, of course), it might set you over the edge. Even if you can't force them into a hotel or a rental house, encourage them to take a daytrip or two. Leave local tourist attraction brochures in their room. Secondly, stick to your schedule as much as possible or necessary. Be up front about this. If you can and want to, take a day or two off and give them your undivided attention. But if you can't--or don't want to--explain that you have to work and this is the schedule. You'll be home at this hour. Dinner is at this time. Bedtime is at this one. Especially once kids are involved, schedules make things run smoothly. Maintaining your family's might maintain your sanity. But don't be too much of a stickler. It is the holidays, and they are visiting because they love you and your kids. Let the kids stay home a day or two with Grandma and Grandpa, or spend an evening up well past their bedtime. Those are the times memories are made, and you look gracious doing it. Still, every family visit has those moments, the times when grandparents question your parenting skills or grown siblings revert back to childhood disputes. Dealing with those is tricky, but doable.
And, I find, a glass of spiked eggnog doesn't hurt, if you're not pregnant or breastfeeding, of course. Article from: http://babyfit.sparkpeople.com/articles.asp?id=996 |
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Tuesday, December 13, 2011
How to Avoid Family Drama during the Holidays
Saturday, December 10, 2011
What should we wear to the photo shoot?
There are many answers to that question, the most basic of which, is something comfortable! Babies and young children are antsy enough without us forcing them to wear something itchy, tight, unwieldy or hot. Besides comfort, there are many other things to consider when dressing your little angels for portraits.
1.The Birthday Suit-Newborns and babies have gorgeous skin, and nothing shows off that natural, innocent creature like nakedness. An added bonus for slightly older babies, is that eyes tend to stand out more when they are not overpowered by clothing, and, let’s face it, some of us tend to make our babies look silly in outfits that either don’t fit, or that look more like costumes than clothing.
2.Mostly White Clothing-This is a popular look for baby and children portraits. All white clothing gives a clean and natural look to the images, and is a great way to create a classic portrait that captures the purity of childhood. This is a common choice for family portraits, as well. White clothing works great for outdoor photos as well as in-studio portraits with a white backdrop.
3.Bold Colors-Don’t be afraid to put your baby or child in bold colors or prints. Although we generally wouldn’t recommend a bright print for an adult (or newborns,) vivid colors on young children will result in a playful, lively portrait, especially primary colors like red, blue, and green. (Take a chance with yellow only if you know it is flattering against your child’s skin color.) Bright colors really pop against the greens of nature, so consider a meadow or woodsy area for your photos.
4.Avoid Stripes-Stripes can wind up looking distorted in the final image, and, like bright prints, can be a distraction from the subject.
5.Layering clothing can be a stylish effect.
6.Multiple Children or Family Portrait Photography – Here is where it becomes important to avoid prints. Typically, you don’t want loud, distracting clothing in a portrait since it tends to lead the eyes away from the subject. It’s nice, in a multi-person or family photo, to try and coordinate clothing so that colors and styles complement one another. For instance, you don’t want one child wearing wintry clothing and the other in shorts and t-shirt, or one wearing a nice dress and the other wearing ratty-old tennis shoes. Choosing clothes with same or similar colors unifies the picture and keeps the focus on the persons in the picture.
7.Accessories and Props-Finally, I’ve done some adorable portraits of children wearing hats, tiaras, scarves, fairy wings, even tutus. If your child wears his Superman cape everyday, maybe you should let him wear it in a few pictures. Why not? You want pictures that capture that your little guy really is, right? Besides, he may be much more willing to take other non-cape pictures afterwards. Props can be great addition, too, so consider bringing your child’s favorite book, stuffed animal or toy.
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Thursday, November 17, 2011
Why Choose Custom Photography?
Why Choose Custom Photography
Custom photography is more of a luxury than your entry level cookie cutter chain experience. Custom photography truly is not for everyone, it requires a level of commitment, investment in time and money, forethought and planning on the part of the subject/client and requires a larger time commitment for the photographer as well.
Clients who enjoy taking a more active role in the creation of their families’ memories have the desire to have portrait art that is truly personalized. These more discerning clients have been known to budget and allot time for a custom photography session. Many clients opt for it to be a once a year special experience, some opt to have custom photography sessions done to record their child's stages in life. Having said this, it is clear that custom photography is not in everyone’s budget, it is something that most families save for to splurge on from time to time to memorialize their children as they really are (not posed and primped in the cookie cutter studio setting).
There is a great deal of time involved in creating high end custom photography sessions for a client. The luxury of great service, better choices and a supberb end product. The result of all this are heirloom quality images. The time invested at the session is only a small portion of time involved in this process.
Custom photography has been likened to purchasing a fine vehicle. To get to point B from A let's face it, even a bus ride would suffice. If you want to luxuriate in a finely appointed vehicle, customizing your own experience by listening to smooth jazz while sitting in a climate controlled setting adjusted purely for your comfort in a body hugging leather interior, perhaps that Lexus you so desire is your cup of tea. Custom photography is much the same cup of tea. It is the Lexus of the photography world. It is where the intangibles make the experience truly wonderful and the images themselves make the investment of money and time truly worthwhile.
Custom photography can be broken down into even more levels. There are on location, studio, mixed studio/on location, specialty location and destination type photographers. The beauty of custom photography is in the choices and in the luxury of thoses options. The customized service level you are sure to experience will be amazing. The knowledge that your final images are the result of someone caring about those moments so much that they take extra time ensuring that the artwork you receive is good enough to stand by with their name on it. That level of quality and commitment is all but lost in the age of "mass produced," "mass marketed," corporate "everyone is a number". Custom photography is based on being unique to you. How great an experience would be, to be able to sit back and allow a photographer to do this highly custom work for images that you will most likely cherish for a lifetime?
Keep in mind more than anything that the Lexus will never appreciate in value the way your portraits will. The portrait art you become invested in from your custom photographer will no doubt increase in value and become more priceless as the years pass.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
What Is Custom Photography?
The photographic art you choose to place on your wall is ultimately the result of the vision of the photographer. This vision, coupled with what you wear to your session, the environment, the lighting, even the mood the subjects are in at the time of photographing creates the work that you will want to proudly display on your walls forevermore.
Your first step in the process is more about determining who you are, who your family is and then seeking a photographer that reflects your style. For instance let’s say your family is extremely outdoorsy and loves playing on the beach. You start determining what style you like, browse through photography website portfolios and determine if any of the styles exhibited there would be a good fit with your life and family style. You have already determined that you should probably seek out a beach type photographer (that is if you live near a beach) and then begin narrowing the field down a bit.
Finally after a bit of Internet research, you have narrowed it down to two photographers who do what seems like solid work, the sort of outdoor beach look you desire. It is now time to ask yourself: Do you like photographer A’s style over photographer B’s style? Is it because the people in the images of A’s style are having a great time and it seems very caught up in the moment vs. B photographer more posed, looking in the camera images? If this is a case, you probably like LIFESTYLE photography or perhaps even take it a step further and define your desired style as a PHOTOJOURNALISTIC photography style. The photographer you probably should choose is photographer A because their style is very similar to the style you desire.
What custom photography ultimately is all about is choice and experience. Custom photography is about finding someone who will photograph your family, give you devoted 1:1 attention without worry of who is next ‘in line’ or the feeling of a crowded portrait studio.
- A custom photographer will typically show you a fairly extensive gallery culled to only show the good images that meet the photographers’ creative sensibilities.
- Often the images are fully edited images-color corrected with blemishes and under eye circles removed.
- Custom photographers are also known as boutique studios, offering a range of products and unparalleled service. Think Lexus vs. Hyundai, think Nordstrom vs. WalMart.
A custom photography experience should have you, the client and your experience in mind.
Friday, October 28, 2011
Back to Blogging
Back to trying this blog thing again. I know it's been awhile but I'm hoping to be able to create a place for those without Facebook or Twitter to find out the latest info.
So here's to blogging....
So here's to blogging....
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